Cut 1 box + 1 package of buddy sticks in half. Grind remainder of the buddy sticks. Melt butter and mix with grounds. Press into 12″ springform pan. Line the edge of the pan by standing the half-sticks like a fence.
In a large bowl, beat together cream cheese, peanut butter, sugar and milk until fluffy. Add vanilla, pudding, and whipping cream. Mix well.